Big_Ole_Dog's messages

Hi there! Would you consider changing the title of your Gallery thread to Big_Old_Dog’s Gallery? I think it’s helpful for people to know whose gallery they are looking at.

Also, if you say “Don’t say anything, I don’t want C&C” and “Feel free to comment” It’s a little unclear what you really want from people. I can kind of guess from having read your posts over time, but can’t think of an alternative wording, so I appreciate the difficulty.

As I said on my previous shout (that you deleted- if you need screenshots of it I can give you some) you need to change your attitude. I’m not stupid, and you are the one breaking the rules. Instead of thinking we are all against you, chill and think: why would they hate me?

If you don’t the others to bother you and call you a “fail”, then you start that change.

Now, take a break from Kongregate, and then continue posting. A one word post with the word “fail” is against the rules, please read the conduct guidelines. I hope to see a more respectful user soon :)

~lightsun.

This is a message to all those users that actually appreciate me on Kongregate.

I am one of the most active people on here and you all disrespect me, so I will disrespect you too, that’s why I do the things I do because none of you understand me and what I do and could’ve done for Kongregate, and because of all the hate and the horrible use of words towards me, I am gone.

I am not saying I am the most important user on Kongregate, I can be an ass, I have my moments, but who doesn’t.I guess when I have my moments no-one wants me to and shoots me down, if I ask for help, I get shot down, If I post my art I get shot down, If I make a topic/group/anything it gets shot down.

The reason to me leaving isn’t because of any of you in particular, it is because of my actions here, they have altered your opinions on me, this is my fault none of yours. You all were tough on me at first and I had few friends, then you all eventually accepted me, then hated me soon after, I had my spotlight for the time being and now it is dull and can’t be lit any longer, my time on Kongregate is done for now, I may be back in the near future, or sometime later, I might be back as a different user and you won’t know who I am, my art style will be improved. But I will know every single one of you, I will know your personality, how you interact with other users, if I didn’t like you much, and your artistic skill levels and some of the help I had given to improve your artwork, I hope when/if I come back I see a huge change in the forums, and your attitudes to new members, and others who tend to be a little less friendly at times, instead of reacting in negative ways, which gets me angrier because you team up on me, and no-one is on my side, it is like fighting a one manned battle with a stick and a plate for a shield, I am not trying to be an attention whore, this is only to let you all know why I am gone and if you even wonder, “Where did Big_Ole_Dog go” I highly doubt that though, considering all the tension I feel towards me when I post just about anything. I hope this makes you all think a little bit about what you say and do, even online can make you feel a little unwanted, even though people say they don’t care, they care deep in their mind, I hope this post has helped you all towards a positive direction. Or just look at Nqkio for example, he is a good member on here, he tried to keep the forums clean, is helpful, artistic and a talented guy when it comes to art, and you all respect him, he is a good role model. In your minds I am most likely a bad example, some of you probably think of me as a “Spammer” or a “Troll”, I try not to do those things but it happens I guess without me knowing, so please try not to be like me and be stupid and have everyone hate you, be like Nqkio and have everyone adore you and be willing to help you.

~ Big O, over and out.