@Hexic100000 - The only cause for that I can think of is PVP right now. The servers have decided to kick people from games resulting in a loss pretty much every time you try to PVP (or at least the games that I and others have played). Hopefully we'll get a fix soon.
vinnvinn, that's probably a better question to ask in chat, you'll get an answer faster. You'll spawn a singularity. These have negative attack (so they heal the opponent), and do a number of nasty things, such as make themselves immaterial, give themselves adrenaline, make copies of themselves. One singularity at the start can make the rest of the game impossible for you.