wow wtf are you talking about fasalrod? first of all they can't far players 5 times less than their fame, and if you spend your resources there would be no reason to far you as it wastes their AP.. and your current army can be outsourced so they can not attack it. Battlements also help deter farming.
The infinite loading bug/glitch really needs to be fixed, Every time I leave my castle it occurs, I accidentally sent my hero on a 3 hour trip by using the search function trying to get past the bug/glitch by accident.. and unfortunately I can't get to his picture to recall him T_T