I found it through a walkthrough video a couple hours ago but thank you for the shout! I didnt see it in matts walkthrough because i thought it was pointing to the chest just under it haha.
Yeah, they need soem sort of lobbying or friends list method on that game. its way too random to get into games, adn the FINDGAME feature is horribly inaccurate
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