What if this isn't about life, its about something more specific, love(or the loved one), like the name of the game...
It's all about decisions we make to please or not our loved ones, its all about the things we do to please the love one(in the dance/beg part) its all about the fellings we feel, the frighten or the excitement the time before a meeting, and in the "do not fail" part, isn't for the failure itself, but for you meet the others expectations in the meeting. And the endings corresponding to their acts make this a very pausible theory.
@Eric9248
Do you REALLY now how to play Minesweeper ? Basically just the first move is luck, the rest of it is totally based on the numbers of the tile...