It's your own fault, you could have docked at a station before you left and bought more lives. No one else had anything to do with you getting killed, that "f****** son of a b****" was part of the game, not a person.
Actually, people had been doing that kinda hacking months before mp was taken down. Mp was taken down because someone figured out how to hack into the servers themselves and delete user accounts and screw up mp. The game was no longer making money for Ben, so he decided to leave the servers as they were: with no mp and no accounts.
A vortex bomb is not permanent and neither is the ultra vortex bomb, black holes on the other hand ARE permanent, but cannot be created. They are always in specific sectors. You get reset when you run out of lives- meaning you have to start over. Best way to avoid that is buy lives whenever possible.