Are girls getting too sexy at an early age? page 25 (locked)

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The fact that they are developing naturally at an earlier age does not help the problem

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Yeah… I don’t really think that “young girls being sexy” is a problem. When i say “sexy” i mean pretty, something like that. The REAL problem is being slutty. Wearing, like, miniskirts, slutty shirts, high heels… WTF what the hell is wrong? Sometimes the problem IS the stupid parents.

It depends on if the parents really are the ones deciding that. Children, and girls in specific, are perfectly capable of making decisions at earlier ages than 18.

Actually, if you look at historical trends we are treating girls as sexually mature/attractive at a later age than is typical of our species, not earlier. Only a few hundred years ago it was the norm for girls as young as 10-12 to be married and to be bearing children as soon as 12-14. In today’s society we frown upon this as opposed to upholding it as an ideal behavior.

Does it matter if they are getting sexier at an early age?

Not really.

I’m 16, i agree i went to my old elm. school and saw this little girl wearing high heels and more make-up then most of my friends in highschool does

Originally posted by DarthNader:

Too Sexy???

NO SUCH THING!

This ^^

also,

Originally posted by Gamergurl900:

Yes but we also need to realize this is also the parents fault for allowing and buying their young girls slutty outfits. My mom and dad didn’t buy me cloths so I could look like a ho. When I see a young girl like 12 or 13 dress up all slutty out in public I look at the parents with disgust. What ever happen to the fathers who made sure their daughters did not go out on their date dressing slutty?

i know, right? all a man needs to do is move some of it a couple inches, and it’s time to grind. no more shame. no more guilt. all that teenage boys and girls think is chk, chk, chk, chk, until guys cum themselves, or girls moan in the middle of the test. people aren’t getting too sexy too soon. they are getting too slutty too soon.

im a slut get over it

I think their clothes get more provocative, but not necessarily sexy.

My own interpretation of the question in this thead (without reading it all): Is the slutty culture spreading too much, particularly to younger and younger ages?

I assume that people agree that sluttiness in any age is bad, which should cover pretty much everything, but its worse ofcourse that young children, around the age the age of 14 are finding it acceptable. I’d say this can’t mainly be blamed on the parents, I think the media etc is to blame, but that children are developing in an earlier age is the source of the problem. What causes this I dont know and dont know the answer to.

If you mean that children are dressing provocative without understanding the concept, for example an 8 year old wearing revealing clothes because she saw it on television or something. In this case the parents can do everything about it.

but its worse ofcourse that young children, bellow the age of 14 are finding it acceptable. I’d say this can’t mainly be blamed on the parents, I think the media etc is to blame

No. If you’re younger than 14, you don’t have disposable, independent income. You are driven to a mall by your parents, who are generally with you to pay when you buy clothes. If you want to buy a skirt that just barely covers your privates (and yes, I’ve seen those on elementary schoolers) then the correct answer, as a parent, is to say no.

If you see your child going to school in an outfit that is inappropriate, again — you say no. If it becomes too big a deal, you donate all your kids clothes and start over. If you can’t say no to a kid when they want to buy something that looks like something you’d wear on a street-corner at midnight, you shouldn’t be a parent.

Originally posted by atlafan:

but its worse ofcourse that young children, bellow the age of 14 are finding it acceptable. I’d say this can’t mainly be blamed on the parents, I think the media etc is to blame

No. If you’re younger than 14, you don’t have disposable, independent income. You are driven to a mall by your parents, who are generally with you to pay when you buy clothes. If you want to buy a skirt that just barely covers your privates (and yes, I’ve seen those on elementary schoolers) then the correct answer, as a parent, is to say no.

If you see your child going to school in an outfit that is inappropriate, again — you say no. If it becomes too big a deal, you donate all your kids clothes and start over. If you can’t say no to a kid when they want to buy something that looks like something you’d wear on a street-corner at midnight, you shouldn’t be a parent.

I said “not mainly” to imply that the children are buying their own clothes. The parents might pay for them, but they dont come along and are a part of the decision. If the parents are doing the actual shopping or are being apart of it, they’re obviously to blame. I edited it to “around the age of 14” instead.

My point was that if the kids are feeling the sexual attraction earlier every generation, it will also be harder and harder for the parents to control them, especially in the society we live in.

Besides, nowadays its almost impossible to blame a child for an action, its always the parents fault “for not raising their kids better”. I mean that kind of philosophy can remove all kind of guilt from anyone. A killer couldnt help killing because the society pushed him to it. The parents parents are to blame for not making good parents of their kids, and so fourth.

Besides, nowadays its almost impossible to blame a child for an action, its always the parents fault “for not raising their kids better”. I mean that kind of philosophy can remove all kind of guilt from anyone. A killer couldnt help killing because the society pushed him to it. The parents parents are to blame for not making good parents of their kids, and so fourth.

No, when the kid’s out of the nest they’re their own responsibility. They have to make decisions on their own. But when they’re still a minor, yes, what they do reflects your parenting. A kid that steals something should learn from his parents that stealing is wrong and it absolutely will not be tolerated, ever. If a child is in your home, with their clothes in your home, going through your laundry, and they have to face you every morning before they go out and every night when they get home, yes, you are responsible for what they wear.

What kids do when they’re out of your roof is not your responsibility. But, when they’re under your roof, they’re under your rules — which means that if you can’t say no to your kid when they want to wear something that looks slutty, or when you can’t tell your kid that they are not allowed to steal, then you’re doing it wrong.

I can understand the first few times it happens. But it shouldn’t happen for too long before you wash their clothes and see that it is not appropriate, or you see them going out in inappropriate outfits (if they’re hiding what they’re going out in, you have different problems). And, when it happens, you tell them that it is not allowed. If they do it again, go through their closet, get rid of all the inappropriate clothes, and cut off the pursestrings. If they can’t pick out tasteful clothes, then they can pick them out while you are there.

Originally posted by atlafan:

Besides, nowadays its almost impossible to blame a child for an action, its always the parents fault “for not raising their kids better”. I mean that kind of philosophy can remove all kind of guilt from anyone. A killer couldnt help killing because the society pushed him to it. The parents parents are to blame for not making good parents of their kids, and so fourth.

No, when the kid’s out of the nest they’re their own responsibility. They have to make decisions on their own. But when they’re still a minor, yes, what they do reflects your parenting. A kid that steals something should learn from his parents that stealing is wrong and it absolutely will not be tolerated, ever. If a child is in your home, with their clothes in your home, going through your laundry, and they have to face you every morning before they go out and every night when they get home, yes, you are responsible for what they wear.

What kids do when they’re out of your roof is not your responsibility. But, when they’re under your roof, they’re under your rules — which means that if you can’t say no to your kid when they want to wear something that looks slutty, or when you can’t tell your kid that they are not allowed to steal, then you’re doing it wrong.

I can understand the first few times it happens. But it shouldn’t happen for too long before you wash their clothes and see that it is not appropriate, or you see them going out in inappropriate outfits (if they’re hiding what they’re going out in, you have different problems). And, when it happens, you tell them that it is not allowed. If they do it again, go through their closet, get rid of all the inappropriate clothes, and cut off the pursestrings. If they can’t pick out tasteful clothes, then they can pick them out while you are there.

When a child reaches the age of 13, its harder to control them than you think. I know what you mean when the adults have responsibility for their own kids, and I agree, I’m only pointing out that, even the best parents cant know the exact outcome of their kids. If you’re too strict with them, it will become a challenge, to loose and they’ll adapt some really shitty habits.

Originally posted by Criks:

My own interpretation of the question in this thead (without reading it all): Is the slutty culture spreading too much, particularly to younger and younger ages?

I assume that people agree that sluttiness in any age is bad, which should cover pretty much everything, but its worse ofcourse that young children, around the age the age of 14 are finding it acceptable.

Seriously can you even objectively state what “slutiness” is and why it is bad? The fact that what you call the “slutty culture” is spreading or even alone exists, points out quite clearly that people do not “agree that sluttiness in any age is bad” but instead that there is no consensus that “sluttiness” is bad or even what “sluttiness” is.
I don´t think the media is to blame or that children are developing at an earlier age, but that the society has become free, in that there is no longer a majority that can dictate what is appropriate to wear and what not. Now everyone can choose for themselves what they find appropriate and what not, without facing serious repercussions as long as they break laws. Some people have not adopted and have not come to accept this freedom but instead cling to the social norms they were taught(often subconsciously).

My answer, in short, is yes. It is inappropriate, and a sad attempt at attention and acceptance. People will eventually learn.

I’m fine with people knowing about sex and how that stuff all works really. The only problem is people who care too much about banging a guy every day other day.

if u are like 13+ i think there is not problem buth 11 10 thats just kids buth 13+ is wen a kids is a teenager so u can have sex and all that stuff waths the problem if a 15 year old wants to look sexy leth her there is no problem people do diferenth stuff all day if u want a tatoo in the ass and u 13 no problem if u want to f*ck a guy and u r 13 no problem please people let other people be free

Originally posted by lenincastro:

if u are like 13+ i think there is not problem buth 11 10 thats just kids buth 13+ is wen a kids is a teenager so u can have sex and all that stuff waths the problem if a 15 year old wants to look sexy leth her there is no problem people do diferenth stuff all day if u want a tatoo in the ass and u 13 no problem if u want to f*ck a guy and u r 13 no problem please people let other people be free

What exactly makes the average 13 year old more suited to have sex than a 10 year old?

I assume from your post that you want to drop the age of legal maturity to 13 for some insane reason as a 13 year old cannot currently legally have sex, or get a tattoo

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It is inappropriate, and a sad attempt at attention and acceptance. el bandito you are so right the only reason that people wear provocative clothing is to get attention and yes it is highly inappropriate for a little girl to wear slutty clothes