Sleepallnight
551 posts
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Originally posted by Johnyboy29:
Sleepallnight, she is in band now, but in middle school, played soccer and softball
Ah, then I shut up, your case is unlike my experiences.
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tudordan
1927 posts
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Originally posted by AirmanAlex:
Eh, Im not good at making friends… dont have these problems…
This.
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Bobneson
266 posts
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No,Then i had some problem with speech.
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SavagedSavant
13 posts
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Originally posted by Johnyboy29:
Okay, the situation is that he liked her at the time i asked her out.
He had a class with her. They were friends before i was even dating her. He was mad because she was dating me. So, he told her that i was being controlling ( i wasn’t though) and she believed him. The day after, i wrote her a note saying that i never liked her anyways, and that i did not want to be her friend (she offered to just be friends). I also said that i thought she was weird, and had a awkward personality. I have since told her i am sorry, and that i don’t mean what i said. Now, she won’t talk to me. She still talks to him though, they are still friends. She would never go out with him, he is kinda fat, and weird. I’m not sure why she is his friend. I play football. I bench 295 lbs, and am ripped (sorry to brag). But i think that is wpart of the reason she wanted to be my girlfriend. She is in the band. Since she broke up with me, i have been very deppressed. I am mad at my friend, and he wanders why i am mad at him.
Your behavior is severely indicative of passive-aggressive behavioral patterns, stemming from vacuous self-esteem. Your lashing out at her after the break-up is analogous to a pressurized dewar vessel at its brinking limit. It is no surprise that she will not talk to you, considering your inflated ego (which is a misappropriation of confidence, revealing itself only as arrogance). To hammer the proverbial nail into the coffin, controlling personalities are one of the main symptoms of passive-aggressive behavior, as it is your way to assert dominance, since you are so insecure that you fear she will leave you otherwise. It is no surprise that you are depressed and blame your friend; your behavior, in truth, predicts this response. I strongly urge you to seek therapeutic intervention.
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