Cyberbullies and bullies page 3

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It is perfectly logical about it.

My solution takes away a problem(being bullied) for no extra cost at all. There is aboslutely no negatives involved in redirecting their attentions to another kid.

 
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yes many of s have been bullied.
recently, i got into a fight with my ex-friend. he is well……..very odd, and he tried to throw me onto the street. with the help of some friends and a large metal water bottle, i messed with him to escape. i don’t know why i am posting this, i just had to.

 
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Originally posted by xmidnight7:

bulling and cyberbulling is the 1 of the worst things anyone can do

No its not.

 
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My solution takes away a problem(being bullied) for no extra cost at all. There is aboslutely no negatives involved in redirecting their attentions to another kid.

Yeah, and there’s no negatives involved in my knife stabbed right in your eye either, as long as I don’t get caught (the latter also counts for your case, by the way, so don’t argue about that). The point is, this only gains you the respect of the trolls, since you’re so tough for bullying others. And I’m sure you’re happy to be part of that group. Just don’t be surprised if you’ll end up in a coffin sooner or later bullying the nerdy younger brother of a heavyweight champion. Which you’ll frankly deserve.

 
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Originally posted by helltank:

Once I was bullied,

Then I fought back like a demon and the bullies decided there were other, easier targets to bully.

I redirected their attentions to another kid.

Now me and my former bullies are verbally gangbanging the kid.

Originally posted by helltank:

It is perfectly logical about it.

My solution takes away a problem(being bullied) for no extra cost at all. There is aboslutely no negatives involved in redirecting their attentions to another kid.

no negatives? think again.

there’s only two possible outcomes: either you continue your sociopathic behavior your entire life, which probably means you are a genuine sociopath, and you will fail in life to properly bond socially and get into lots of problems you cannot comprehend; or you will cease your sociopathic ways and will live the rest of your life with a lot of skeletons looming at you from your closet.

have fun with that, kid.

 
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Originally posted by lSWATLLAMA:

What the hell is all this shit with cyberbullying? Why do people care if random people that they don’t know do not like them?

Now, real bullying is a problem. Bullies should have a record put on them and not be allowed to reproduce and create more bullies.

Now I care that people I dont know make fun of me because they bash me and my family and that makes me mad. One guy made fun of my brother he died when he was 3 he was blind he got really sick and died, making fun of that is crossing the line !!! And also making bullies not be able to reproduce is a little harsh even for the guy who made fun of my brother.

 
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Originally posted by Twilight_Ninja:
Originally posted by lSWATLLAMA:


Now, real bullying is a problem. Bullies should have a record put on them and not be allowed to reproduce and create more bullies.

Now there’s an idea. It would never fly, but I can’t say I would be against it. Why let assholes populate the planet?

thats a little harsh dont you think bro ?
 
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Originally posted by OmegaDoom:

so what’s the discussion here?

what are your thoughts on cyberbullies and bullies ? <<<<<<< Thats the disscusion

 
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that’s not a discussion, that’s a question.

 
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Honestly I dont see why people can be so mean sometimes. I don’t get how sombody can cyberbully a stranger they dont even know without feeling bad, it seems unnessesary to me that a person feels the need to bash someone else. 100% of bullies have no self respect for themselfs 25% of bullies have problems at home 100% of bullies arent happy with themselfs inside 50% of bullies are desperate for attention…

 
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Originally posted by OmegaDoom:

that’s not a discussion, that’s a question.

look dont be a smart elic ok I was just trying to say that I wanted to know what everyones thoughts were

 
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Originally posted by savannahlegg:

Honestly I dont see why people can be so mean sometimes.

Well there’s sadism, people just being in a bad mood and snapping at people, etc. it’s really not that hard to understand.

I don’t get how sombody can cyberbully a stranger they dont even know without feeling bad,

That’s because you’re not them.

100% of bullies have no self respect for themselfs 25% of bullies have problems at home 100% of bullies arent happy with themselfs inside 50% of bullies are desperate for attention…

Where in the hell did you get those statistics?

Originally posted by savannahlegg:
Originally posted by OmegaDoom:

that’s not a discussion, that’s a question.

look dont be a smart elic ok I was just trying to say that I wanted to know what everyones thoughts were

Alec* (I’m pretty sure that’s how it’s spelled, at least.)

And it’s still not a discussion.

 
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I figure i will add my 2 cents to this discussion. I have been bullied my self (just so people know im not speaking rubbish here). There are several reasons as to why they bully the victim some previously said. First it could be to make them self look good in front of their piers. They also may do it because of their own problems (both physical and emotional). And other reasons like revenge and simply for entertainemt or enjoyment, may seem harsh but it happens.

Dealing with a bully/bullies is difficult and their are a lot of ways to do it. I was relitivily lucky because i eventually moved school and was fine, excluding the rough start and other minor problems. Anyway one of the easiest way is to speak to a person of authority like a teacher or head. Depending on the form of bullying will limit your options. If they bullied you physically then you can get the authorities involced for physical assault, i would take caution if you do this as it could make things worst.

If you are being bullied then you might not be much of the fighting type but that is a good way to stop and prevent you from being bullied, depending on the outcome.

If you dont feel like getting too involved like a lot of victims then making a fresh start at another school or area might be a good idea.

If you can’t deal with it yourself than speaking to somebody is one of the best things you can do. It may be difficult if you dont have friends but their is usually always somebody.

I appreciate that it is hard for anyone who is being bullied as it is hard. You can always put up with it like i did for the majority of years but you can always seek out help.

Bullying is a serious thing, people commit suicide it gets that bad for them.

 
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Hmm. Well first of all, Cyberbulling is a bunch of shit. If you are affected by that then your are a low self-esteem wreck or have your emotions easily hurt. If you just have a good humor in life you can barell past anything.
We have bullies at my school and you know why they never bully me?
1: Doesn’t do anything at all but make them look like dicks.
2: Humor renders are there insults useless, so the watchers don’t really get anything but them flinging insults.
3: I’m a well liked person, to put in into terms, and the few that do dislike me they keep that to themselves.

I have to say though. Humor= Best thing in life. Don’t take it so seriously people. Especially cyber bullying. I don’t support bullying but if your being bullied then make it stop, simple as that. Lift some weights for gods sake instead of sitting here complaining about it. Run a little and get fast, read up on easy comebacks. Develop a sense of humor. Humor helped me through my mom’s death at the age of 9, and the rest of my life since then
Best thing to do as well? Get a nice group of friends. haha my best friends and i destroyed the last group that bullied one of us. And yes “US” so get a group of friends, harder to pick on 5 people then it is on 1, thats just common sense. They picked on one of my friends, like 4 of them. Then 8 of us came back, guess what they did? “Meh i was just joking meh” but lets say my friend was a little roughed up. Weell hope you take some advice. Or just skip reading this and go lift some god damn weights haha.

Those are how to stop bullying without losing any respect in the eyes of your fellow peers. You could always go cry to the teachers but that doesn’t always fix the problem.

 
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Originally posted by Cedar210:

yes many of s have been bullied.
recently, i got into a fight with my ex-friend. he is well……..very odd, and he tried to throw me onto the street. with the help of some friends and a large metal water bottle, i messed with him to escape. i don’t know why i am posting this, i just had to.

Interesting, so how did the arguement start ? I’m curious… ;-)

 
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Originally posted by sabwab:

Hmm. Well first of all, Cyberbulling is a bunch of shit. If you are affected by that then your are a low self-esteem wreck or have your emotions easily hurt. If you just have a good humor in life you can barell past anything.
We have bullies at my school and you know why they never bully me?
1: Doesn’t do anything at all but make them look like dicks.
2: Humor renders are there insults useless, so the watchers don’t really get anything but them flinging insults.
3: I’m a well liked person, to put in into terms, and the few that do dislike me they keep that to themselves.

I have to say though. Humor= Best thing in life. Don’t take it so seriously people. Especially cyber bullying. I don’t support bullying but if your being bullied then make it stop, simple as that. Lift some weights for gods sake instead of sitting here complaining about it. Run a little and get fast, read up on easy comebacks. Develop a sense of humor. Humor helped me through my mom’s death at the age of 9, and the rest of my life since then
Best thing to do as well? Get a nice group of friends. haha my best friends and i destroyed the last group that bullied one of us. And yes “US” so get a group of friends, harder to pick on 5 people then it is on 1, thats just common sense. They picked on one of my friends, like 4 of them. Then 8 of us came back, guess what they did? “Meh i was just joking meh” but lets say my friend was a little roughed up. Weell hope you take some advice. Or just skip reading this and go lift some god damn weights haha.

Those are how to stop bullying without losing any respect in the eyes of your fellow peers. You could always go cry to the teachers but that doesn’t always fix the problem.

dont be a jerk ok I just wanted to know what everyone’s thoughts were ok so dont be like tht :( !!!
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Originally posted by savannahlegg:

I think you just got cyber-bullied/trolled.

 
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The only thing I dont understand is why people kill themselves over things like cyberbullying

 
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I’ve been cyber-bullied and don’t see it as a big deal. The real problem is IRL bullying because they often go hand-in-hand. OL you can just mute or block the dumbshit harassing you, IRL they’ll beat your ass. I’ve been IRL bullied all through school, I mostly ignored it towards the end. It’s no use just thumping some dimwit who called you a dyke, that only reinforces what they think of you. I got called a dyke all through high school because I was short and fat with short, spiky hair, liked to swear and liked wearing guys’ clothing in my free time. I turned down any of the boys who asked me out because I knew their mates had just dared them to go and ask out the fat pig sitting on the bench reading a crime novel. I’m asexual btw but at the time I didn’t know what that was, I just assumed since I wasn’t interested in the boys I must be a lezo so I said I was and that caused more trouble. It caused a lot of lulz online when this bitch from my school, Jane, who was fatter and uglier than me, started spamming me on facebook saying i was “fugly” and had “cancles”. Seriously, she was a landwhale compared to me and had these tiny little eyes too far up her head and freckles all over her ugly face and she called me ugly. Her legs were like tree stumps yet I was the one with “cancles” lol. She threw my pencil sharpener at me one day in class after I kindly lent it to her, so I hit her with a ruler. Guess who got in trouble? Not the one who aimed for my temple.

 
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Originally posted by Chris2fly:

The only thing I dont understand is why people kill themselves over things like cyberbullying

I (and probably YOU should) thank God that ya don’t (YET?) understand such things.

The dark, lonely, scary parts of the human mind can be very, VERY difficult to deal w/……for BOTH the individual AND those around him/er.

 
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Originally posted by karmakoolkid:
Originally posted by Chris2fly:

The only thing I dont understand is why people kill themselves over things like cyberbullying

I (and probably YOU should) thank God that ya don’t (YET?) understand such things.

The dark, lonely, scary parts of the human mind can be very, VERY difficult to deal w/……for BOTH the individual AND those around him/er.

They would kill themselves because they probably fear for their life or they’ve been bullied so much they start to hate themselves. they just want it to end.

 
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Bullying is that which some see as an abomination to the human race due to having it done to themselves, that which some see as a necessity to “remove the weak from society”, and that which some see as “insignificant” because they happen to randomly be capable of handling it.

The fault lies with teachers and to some degree with parents. Parents may push a kid into showing everyone else who’s boss, or may neglect them in such a way that the kid doesn’t understand how the world works. Teachers don’t want to deal with bullying and do very little to teach kids how to act in class or during breaks. This allows “the strong” to pick on “the weak” and there’s very little one can do about it unless you become one of the strong yourself, effectively forcing them to change targets (changing very little in general). Bullshit reasons such as “you’ll become stronger” are surreal. The only thing I learned was that I had to beat up a bully in order to make him stop. That in no way teaches me how to real-life.

 
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Originally posted by Murder_Machine:
Originally posted by karmakoolkid:
Originally posted by Chris2fly:

The only thing I dont understand is why people kill themselves over things like cyberbullying

I (and probably YOU should) thank God that ya don’t (YET?) understand such things.

The dark, lonely, scary parts of the human mind can be very, VERY difficult to deal w/……for BOTH the individual AND those around him/er.


They would kill themselves because they probably fear for their life or they’ve been bullied so much they start to hate themselves. they just want it to end.


M_M,,,in the most “general way”, I’m gonna agree w/ ya on this.

Teen suicide rates are a huge concern. Why should someone who has a whole life ahead of them—one they will have much more control over once out of high school—give up trying to improve their situation by taking as much current control as possible and making plans to improve greatly on that control in the near future by greatly changing their enviroment (move to somewhere else & present a different persona to the world there).

YOUR second “reason” is the more likelihood. AND, it is one of those weird “snowballing effect” happenings. A lot of bullying targets are those who already have low self-esteem. And, usually, the bullying is a long process that starts even before the teen years…..often for reasons the initiating bullies can’t even remember (ala Mitt Romney and the “hair cut” incident).

Upon having their self-esteem so pummeled for so many years,,,,ya’re right: “they just want it to end.” AND, ya’re, IN GENERAL, right about it being self-hatred that causes them to want to end their lives. BUT, it is my belief that it is the PAIN from such self-loathing which they want to end.

We humans can withstand ONLY SO MUCH PAIN before it drives us to do some very odd things. All one need do to understand this is remember all the “water boarding” at Guantanamo Bay “prison” done in hopes of obtaining info.

OH,,,as for YOUR post, Darkruler….I agree completely w/ it and likely would greatly support an expansion of it in explanation of what ya’ve already said.

 
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Originally posted by Chris2Fly:

The only thing I dont understand is why people kill themselves over things like cyberbullying

well I suppose you dont understand because you have never experianced it. People do that because it gets to the point that it gets unbareable and annoying and they feel that there is nothing they can do about it . I myself would never let it get to that point though . If it got to that point I would probably end up punching somthing/someone .

 
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Originally posted by Murder_Machine:
Originally posted by karmakoolkid:
Originally posted by Chris2fly:

The only thing I dont understand is why people kill themselves over things like cyberbullying

I (and probably YOU should) thank God that ya don’t (YET?) understand such things.

The dark, lonely, scary parts of the human mind can be very, VERY difficult to deal w/……for BOTH the individual AND those around him/er.


They would kill themselves because they probably fear for their life or they’ve been bullied so much they start to hate themselves. they just want it to end.

Well I can’t believe im saying this but I think I may accually agree with you on this one !!!