relasionship truble page 2

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thanks

 
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Well you could try to bring in a bit more ‘surprise’ yourself, maybe start inviting her to go out with you and do something a bit different, go somewhere a bit different, whatever, just keep it causal and treat it a bit like a new adventure for both of you (this can apply to anything ;) {wink, wink, nudge nudge}) Just start suggesting stuff and see if she’s interested in trying it out.

(if you want to move onto a big request, start out with smaller requests first)

 
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tbh we have been talking about geting a little more adventsureies but starting smalll, as she a little nervies about trying new ting along thoese lines, but she will get thire n her own time

 
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Maybe you could open the discussion by asking “Was there anything you always wanted to try?” Or you could try to encourage adventurousness elsewhere by asking the same question in different situations (was there a restaurant you always wanted to try? An amusement park ride you always wanted to go on but where afraid to?, etc) and see if that extra bit of curiosity might leak over into other areas of life.

 
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thanks, will try that. :)