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Topic: Forum Games / This or That?

Jet
Kebab or nothing?

 
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Topic: Serious Discussion / Should women fight in war? (on the frontlines)

Originally posted by EPR89:

Who says that physical strength is everything that counts in the army? Besides certain people in this thread…

It is more mental strength then physical strength.

 
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Topic: Serious Discussion / Online friends --> RL friends: Where to draw the line?

First of all i’d like to thank “vikaTae” on such a detailed and interesting post ;)

I also met someone online who became very special to me and we were in a relationship for a while. I met one of my girlfriends online, we had a nice few months together. I just found it hard to say to others that we met over the internet, plus it made me feel really insecure because you have no idea what people are really like. That’s where I understand what you mean VikaTae with sleeping with your partner for the first time.

I guess you draw the line when they cross your age boundaries. E.g, If you’re 15 and this other person is apparently 15 but is asking for nude pictures and continuous being inappropriate and encouraging you to act in a inappropriate way then the chances are that person isn’t 15. It may not even be that obvious. It can be hard to pick pedophiles and legit people. Sorry to put it like that but that’s just how it is to me.

I have a lot of online friends, as for meeting them only the ones that I really trust and have built my trust over a long period of time I would and have met. It is pretty awkward the first you meet them because you don’t know what going to happen, it’s always good to met in an open area, like McDonalds or something. Just so you can feel that bit more safe.

Now getting back to your question, well you virtually answered your own question then. A real life friend is someone who you may go to school with, work with, hang out with e.t.c. I have two main friend groups, internet and real life. No matter what happens in real life it’s always nice to know I can fall back on my internet life and discuss my problems and help them. It’s also helpful because I can talk about matters that I can’t with real life mates.

I like to be very open with my internet life, I have no problem acting normal infront of people, telling them the “area” (not address) I live in, my age, my name and last name, Facebook, twitter, email, so on e.t.c…. But the trust needs to be earned first and I need to be able to believe that they’re who they say they are. As for pictures that comes down to the Facebook, that is a big step, giving someone over the internet, they can gather so much knowledge and information about you.

But I do like to call a lot of my internet friends real friends because they’re real friends to me. I hang out with them for countless hours whether over the xbox or forums. So in conclusion I am willing to call everyone that I consider a friends a friend, whether it be over the internet or not.

Yes I realise I just contradicted myself but I changed my mind =D

 
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Topic: Serious Discussion / Is having sex at the age of 12 right

Wow-wie, buddy 12 years old is a bit young sorry (in my opinion). I would recommend you have sex at the age of 16 or higher because then you can understand what it means, how it can be very emotional, very painful (for the women), and you understand what is going on. You can get in a lot of trouble with your parents if they find out and with the other persons parents (especially if it’s a daddy’s girl). You may even get her pregnant. Then you have to handle with all this other shit, you don’t want to go down that road. I know you probably want to “do it” now, but just wait a few years, trust me.
But then again Lil Wayne lost his virginity at the age of 11.

 
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Topic: Forum Games / This or That?

Cirque du freak
Ipad or Iphone?

 
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Topic: Off-topic / How Do I Make Girls Give Me <3s?

You don’t seem to be wanting a girl friend but just hearts. Odd but hey whatever. You’ve got to sound confident (slightly cocky), have a sense of humour and be nice. That’s all I do and women <3 me off haha.

Edit= Also ask them about their day, pick up on something interesting they did then ask a question about that. But don’t flood them with questions, the one should do, or even two.

 
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Topic: Serious Discussion / Should women fight in war? (on the frontlines)

Hmm, I say let them. To be honest anyone that is willing to put their body on the line for their country is a hero, whether it’s a male or a female. A solider is a solider.

Yes it “may” be difficult for women with their “different body’s” but i’m sure they “can” make that work. But sex harassment could happen, I know that it’s happened in the navy before. I’m pretty positive that it won’t happening tho. Think hard about this. A women is going into the army, front line, willing to kill and be killed, endure all the pain, leave her family and friends for months even years. You don’t think she can say “no” to a mans sexual needs? It’s all about the will power.

Some of you guys just need to realise that women are just as equal as men. Yea “generally” men are stronger e.t.c But who says a women can’t go to the gym and bulk up? Who says a women can’t be a hero? Who says women are not army material? Idiots, yea go hate on this post, prove me wrong with all your science stats. But realistically you and I both know women can be on the front lines and do just a good of a job as men or possible better.

 
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Topic: Serious Discussion / What should i do?

Originally posted by Another_Stranger:

i’m suffering about a girl that i love, but she doesn’t love me and the worst part is that she loves my best friend. What should i do?

There are more “fish in the sea”, let her go, it can be hard. But, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. As for the best friends thing that sucks, really bad. But I hope you two are still friends and didn’t let this get between you.

 
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Topic: Forum Games / This or That?

Epic
Car or Truck?

 
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Topic: Off-topic / Good Escape Games?

Here is a list of great escape games, they’re not all on the site.
- GhostScape
- Allied Escape
- SeaScape
- Escape the car
- IceScape 2
- Medieval Escape.
Just type them into google and enjoy ;)

 
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Topic: Off-topic / Favorite color?

Baby Blue and a light green

 
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Topic: Off-topic / Favorite Number?

16

 
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Topic: Forum Games / This or That?

Fire
Cricket or AFL?

 
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Topic: Off-topic / Compliments <3

^ This person is a legend ^

 
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Topic: Off-topic / Is it true that in Australia the people are nicer?

I live in Australia and for a matter of fact everyone here is so welcoming and kind ;)

 
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Topic: Forum Games / This or That?

Chuck Greene

Black Ops Multiplayer or Black Ops II Multiplayer?

 
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Topic: Off-topic / Do you drink water?

Clearly we all do.

 
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Topic: Off-topic / I just challenged this guy to a fight...

Originally posted by Rolby:

wtf what a loser. but i never fight in meeting places. when someone makes fun of me i just kick him on the legs or punch him in his belly right when he insults me.

That’s a good idea! Never fight in an arranged place, the other person may have brought friends to assist him or her. Stuff the belly, chuck one straight at the nose. Make them cry. If you’re gonna get in a fight you might as well win or leave in a better condition then the other person.

 
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Topic: Off-topic / My Dutch Teacher Is Pedo

Kinky! hehe jokes
What are you on about? Sounds like an awesome book :P

 
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Topic: Forum Games / The Food Game

Salad

 
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Topic: Off-topic / I just challenged this guy to a fight...

I’m not sure what you’re expecting us to say, well done you’re so tough, I wish I was as tough as you. No! This is a pointless thread. It was only made in an attempt to boost your self esteem and make you sound tough.

Out of curiosity how old are you? That will probably explain why you’re attention seeking…

 
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Topic: Serious Discussion / Cyberbullies and bullies

Nice topic first of all.
Cyber Bullying: This is truly 100% of the time a cowards act. People are so, so much “tougher” over the internet. Considering they are not face to face with the people/person they are picking on. Cyber bullying can be from someone you know in every day to day life or maybe be a random person that you have never meet. Never the less, this can cause a lot of grief for teens. Adults can shrug this kinda stuff off their shoulders, but with teens being stuck into Facebook or even forum fights, they can’t leave. They want to know what’s going to happen next, who’s going to type, what’s going to be said, everyone’s reactions, if it’s dissing them e.t.c. All these things and more run through your mind. Many say switch off the appliance and report/block, it’s not that simple. How are you meant to know what kind of bull shiz people are saying about you behind your back. I know for one i’d want to know what’s being said. Just quickly, getting back to the coward bit, if you play online multiplayer games on xbox, playstation, pc e.t.c (e.g COD) people talk crap all the time and pick on others. Hmm, I presume this is cyber bullying because they persist with it, until the person leaves. I often refer to them as “mic heroes” hehe. If I wear to give anyone advice with cyber bullying it would be, don’t take it to heart. These people are useless lossers that have nothing better to do with there time but put others down so they can temporally run away from their own problems. Also, be as sarcastic as possible, make a joke out of it. That’s what I do, they soon realise you’re not paying attention and slowly give up.

Bullying: Now this is a touchy subject. Bullying can be misunderstood A LOT of the time. There is a difference between someone joking around, bullying and just being/is a dick. Anyway, getting back to the subject, I think legit bullying, bullies and victims is horrible. People don’t understand just how much and how hurtful their comments can be. People can easily cross the line with out noticing it, but can this be called bullying? Yes in my books, anyone who continuously harasses/upsets/physically abuses someone or just lowers their self esteem is a bully and NEEDS to face the consciences of their actions. They are no hero, no role model just a fair-dink-com losers. Ugh, im trying not to swear so hard. These people aggravate me sooo much. They have no idea how people work and what makes them tick. I don’t understand how people can say bullying is okay, it builds character. Are you freaking kidding me!! Yea it turns you into the biggest dick.

Here are some examples of bullying I know or have heard about:

A year or so ago, someone who I knew who was 15, lovely kid. Really nice, welcoming, caring and most of all friendly. Wouldn’t hurt a sole. He was just an all round great guy. He was well known by everyone and very popular. He started to get bullied, he wouldn’t fight back against the bullies. He had lots of self esteem before they started to bully him. He insisted no one to fight his battles. It got worse and worse, he started to talk about suicide, became really shy, rarely talked to anyone but family and a few mates. He slowly crumbled. One day he was school, just sitting, talking to his mates, minding his own business. Until the bullies came up, started hurling verbal abuse at him. “You’re a fat loser, you’re a useless ****, no one likes you. Just kill yourself already, no one can stand you.” So minutes pass before they started to hit him. Beat him up. One of his mates step into to help, he gets beat up to. It was two on six, so some kids came around the corner, see what’s happening and get stuck into the bullies. Anyway, in the end the bullies were kicked out of the school and the kid has been permanently scared. He is nothing like he use to be.

I guess what i’m trying to get you to understand is that bullying is never a short term issues. It has long term effects. Not only long term effects but so many kids that I know have now got depression, self esteem problems e.t.c My ex-girlfriend had to be home schooled because she was bullied to a point where she just couldn’t handle the day in day out abuse. She ended up having anti depressants. Bullying can really stuff up a persons life. Now those examples were all kids and kids at school. But, bullying can also happen in the work force, bullying can occur in your day to day job with out you even noticing it.

One more thing with bullying is that it’s not easy to say yea i’m being bullied at school or i’m being bullied at the work force. It is a big step and bullies tend to pick on people that are different. Skin colour, culture, religious beliefs, appearance, literally what ever they can diss you about. It may seem nothing to you, but some of the stuff people say can really effect a specific individual. Lets take for instance a young girl by the name of Amanda Todd. She has become famous now world wide, she was a young 15 year old girl that committed suicide because she just couldn’t handle it all. Suicide, I dont know about you but that’s as bad as it gets to me. To know that a person wanted to kill them self because of what other people did to her/said to her brings a tear to my eye. It is really said, think about it. She thought she had no one to talk to, no one that loved her, no one she could trust, all odds against her. It is really, really sad. Here is and article on her death if you would like to have a read =
http://www.newyorker.com/online/blogs/culture/2012/10/amanda-todd-michael-brutsch-and-free-speech-online.html

Last example, a boy by the name of Casey heynes, he is a legend. No matter how much you may twist/interoperate the story, he is a hero, he is a role model. This young boy stood up to not only a bully but all the other kids that were (lets say) egging him on. Now he may have reacted in an inappropriate way to many but I think it was the right one. No matter how much you say enough is enough they will never stop. Poor Casey was just pushed over the edge, he had enough of it, and guess what happened. He snapped, body slammed the bully to ground. Here is a interview ACA had with him: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ziIfZx0XX5I

I personally hate bullying so much! As you can see just a few examples that I have come across with people I know and some I have heard about. There are so many others I can say. I have been bullied myself but I nipped it in the butt. Stood my ground they backed down. Anyway that’s enough from me, if you bothered to read the whole post thank you very much!

 
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Topic: Forum Games / This or That?

Shambhala 2012
Girlfriend or boyfriend?

 
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Topic: Off-topic / Chess

I love chess! I refer to it as “The battle of the brains”. I use to play competitively for my school. We would go out and vs other schools. I also played solo competition with my school for two years and finished second in zone. Made it to state division but I decided to decline it. Now that I look back it’s an opportunity wasted.

 
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Topic: Off-topic / I masturbate with my left hand

Do it left, do it right, doesn’t matter. Whatever makes you happy.