Recent posts by graveyard890 on Kongregate

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Topic: Kongregate / Random advice from Gravey: Being too nice and welcoming can totally ruin a chat room.

Originally posted by bobby71983:

I treat everyone very neutralish until I have a reason to believe otherwise.

That is one of about 9000 reasons I would be a terrible mod.

Thats how it should be where people treat each other neutral, not too sweet and not too jerky

 
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Topic: Kongregate / History of myself on Kongregate

Originally posted by randomboy839:

ilikemilk lol

triple a
eggs
zzzdm1
ducks
gerg
teh
balcony
gow
nike
bukkit
laby
dragon’s den/sos
games workshop

you forgot Your Pants. XD aw you still remember my ilikemilk account? haha

 
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Topic: Kongregate / History of myself on Kongregate

Bump: Anyone else want to share some of theirs? BTW I may be editing updating adding on to my history in near future.

 
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Topic: Kongregate / Random advice from Gravey: Being too nice and welcoming can totally ruin a chat room.

Mouse what I meant was the reason the regulars decided to become less active was that they could not handle users who were coming in breaking rules thinking they were owning the chat, instead of the regs trying to take back the room, they gave up and quit to other rooms, because most were too nice, and I dont mean to label all the newer users coming in trolls, just I dont know what other words to call them… Newbies maybe? but yea, now that particular chat is filled with random newbies on often thinking the chat is theirs and they break rules often. This particular chat went from one of the best to one of the worst in a span of 3 months maybe.. Mostly because the main regs were too nice and welcoming and that they sucked at maintaining the place when it actually got out of hand for once… Now it seems like it is out of hand almost alll the time.

 
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Topic: Kongregate / Random advice from Gravey: Being too nice and welcoming can totally ruin a chat room.

Here is why. One chat room I knew pretty well(not going to say the chat room names, but some may know what chat I may be talkin about) was filled with lots of very nice people and welcoming. They always had nice conversations and chatted often, just 1 problem. When a few times chat wasnt too enjoyable they would say they are leaving. But.. the users being very welcoming.. they welcomed any kind of user who entered the chat.. Example:… TrollAccount101(just random madeup username) “Hello”…. Users in the room. “Hey, Welcome to (chat room name)”.. The regulars of that room welcomed any kind of users… The real problem is… Most of those users they welcomed were trolls, little children, etc… The regs in the room made them feel welcome.. and guess what happened… They took advantage.. Decided to act like the chat room was theres, broke rules all the time, then more users came who were like that, now all of the room is basically filled with trolly users who argue with users often and the room has lots of drama… And while those users came in… The regulars of the room.. basically just gave up, instead of acting ways to make those kinds of users leave, they gave up and left the chat to another room and just let all those trolly users take over. And this room had mods too and a few of the mods gave up too and either stopped coming on or left to other rooms to mod too. But the room still has mods and owner whos trying to help the room get better again, but now it will be hard because of how they let any kind of user take over the room and make it theres, without knowing they are trolly or not. That is how being too nice and welcoming can ruin a chat room. Graveys advice is. Do not be TOO NICE and WELCOMING. and I am not saying “BE A JERK” either. Just be normal, not too nice and not too jerky.

Too Long, Didnt Read: Good room with nice users becoming nice and welcoming to any kind of users without knowing they are trolls or not, could lead to those users feeling welcome and making chat theres, taking over thinking they could do whatever the hell they want, which makes the nice regulars leave the room.

Please do not let any rooms get ruined this way.

 
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Topic: Forum Games / The List(current round: Things that have fallen from the sky)

Casino.com

 
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Topic: Kongregate / Permanent Mod needed, Chat room is Bat Country, serious thread, very long Post

Ill have to bump this for other mods who may not have seen it yet.

 
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Topic: Forum Games / The List(current round: Things that have fallen from the sky)

Cone

 
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Coconut falling on your head.

 
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Raging Waters

 
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Barts Nightmare

 
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Moon Ball

 
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Topic: Kongregate / Permanent Mod needed, Chat room is Bat Country, serious thread, very long Post

Guys stop turning this thread into an arguement. Thanks, back to topic, the room has slightly improved a bit since the thread, but still it would be more preferable with a regular mod.

 
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Topic: Kongregate / Permanent Mod needed, Chat room is Bat Country, serious thread, very long Post

Originally posted by MysteryShadowz:

“A chat room I been observing lately and being in, Bat Country, has basically people breaking rules all the times in different ways, and they are all regulars who have been in the room for like a year or 2.”

… then everything is alright!

Why do you want to ruin this for everyone?

How is it allright when they break rules often thinking they can do what they want? sure minor rules are ok, but they do major ones as well which can get annoying

 
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Topic: Forum Games / The List(current round: Things that have fallen from the sky)

Neptune

 
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Topic: Kongregate / Permanent Mod needed, Chat room is Bat Country, serious thread, very long Post

Originally posted by RemoWilliams:

There’s nothing wrong with BC. I’m in there every day and it’s no different than any other chat room. We have our regular trolls now and then, but the room usually handles it.

That’s not what you kept telling me…….

 
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Topic: Forum Games / The List(current round: Things that have fallen from the sky)

British people are known for putting XXXXXXs in sentences a lot, which can mean a kiss on cheek.

 
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Topic: Forum Games / The List(current round: Things that have fallen from the sky)

Ashley

 
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Topic: Kongregate / How do some people get over 1000 fans?

Using me as example? 33 friends 1374 fans. Been on Kong since 2008, 2009 on this account, have chatted a lot, people added me, I added them back, most people who added me became inactive so I removed them and I like to have my friends limited. BTW I could easily have 1600 but I have had around 200 people remove me at different times. So that is how you get a lot of fans

 
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Topic: Forum Games / The List(current round: Things that have fallen from the sky)

Chromeo

 
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Curium

 
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Bang

 
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Luigi

 
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Terrific

 
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Charles