BOTH my, now dead, grandfathers served in WWII and helped save the world. I'll always love you and never forget you Grandaddy and Pop. (Make fun of me if you want. It's worth it to honor 2 of the greatest men I've ever known.)
Nobody play some jerkwad that calls himself poopsicle. He doesn't move and just makes asinine comments. Then he will disconnect before you have enough of an advantage to get the win. He/she ALWAYS does this.
I don't think it should be based on how many disconnects, but what percentage of your matches are disconnects. 3 disconnects means a whole lot more if you have a record of 5/2/3, than if it was 25/15/3.